International Co-Parenting Arrangements for Australian Expats

September 10, 2025
Parenting Arrangements for Expats

Navigating Parenting Disputes as an Expat


Separation is challenging under any circumstances, but for Australian expatriates, parenting arrangements can become particularly complex when families are spread across different countries. 


The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) continues to play a significant role in determining parenting matters for expats, especially where children have a connection to Australia and it may continue to apply to expats even if one or both parents or the children themselves are living overseas.. 


Understanding how Australian law applies, and how to manage cross-border parenting issues, is essential for protecting your children’s best interests and maintaining meaningful relationships.


For expat families, understanding how Australian law interacts with international frameworks such as the Hague Convention on International Child Abduction is essential to ensuring that parenting arrangements remain both legally enforceable and focused on the best interests of the child.


How Australian Parenting Laws Apply to Expats


Australian family law may continue to govern parenting arrangements even when one or both parents, or the children themselves, are living overseas. The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) gives the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) jurisdiction in certain cases where children maintain a substantial connection to Australia.


Key considerations include:


  • Children Residing in Australia: If your children remain in Australia, existing Australian parenting orders under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) will generally continue to apply, regardless of a parent’s relocation.
  • Children Living Overseas: The Australian courts may, in certain circumstances, make or vary parenting orders for children living outside Australia, provided specific jurisdictional requirements are met (such as the child’s habitual residence or citizenship). The High Court in LK v Director-General, Department of Community Services (2009) HCA 9 clarified how “habitual residence” is assessed in cross-border parenting cases.
  • Existing Parenting Orders: Orders made by Australian courts can remain enforceable, and may require recognition or enforcement in the country where the child resides.


Our specialist family law team regularly assists expat parents in navigating these jurisdictional complexities, ensuring that parenting arrangements are both practical and legally robust.


Relocation and the Best Interests of the Child


When a parent seeks to relocate overseas with a child, the court’s paramount consideration is the best interests of the child, as set out in s.60B and s.60CC of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth). The court does not presume in favour of relocation but carefully weighs competing interests. The court will assess a range of factors, including:


  • The nature of the child’s relationship with each parent and other significant people
  • Impact of relocation on the non-relocating parent’s time and involvement.
  • The likely impact of reduced face-to-face time with the non-relocating parent
  • The availability of cultural, educational, and family support in each country
  • The practicality of travel arrangements and ongoing contact


Relocation cases are often highly contested and require careful preparation of evidence and submissions. We represent clients in both seeking and opposing relocation, ensuring that your position is clearly and persuasively presented to the court.


Parenting Arrangements for Long-Distance Families


When parents live in different countries, traditional week-to-week parenting schedules are often impractical. Instead, arrangements may include:


  • Extended periods of time with each parent during school holidays
  • Alternating major holidays (such as Christmas or New Year) between countries
  • Regular video calls, online communication, and other creative solutions to maintain strong parent-child bonds


Under s.65DAA of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), courts must consider whether equal time or “substantial and significant time” with each parent is practical and in the child’s best interests even across international borders.


We assist clients in negotiating, documenting, and formalising long-distance parenting arrangements that are tailored to the unique needs of expat families.


Travel Consent and Passports


International travel with children requires careful planning and clear agreements between parents. Without proper safeguards, disputes can quickly escalate particularly in cross-border families.


Key considerations include:


  • Consent for Overseas Travel: Generally, both parents must consent before a child can travel internationally. Disputes can be minimised by including detailed provisions in parenting orders regarding travel.
  • Passport Arrangements: Agreeing in advance on passport application, storage, and renewal processes can prevent misunderstandings.
  • Notice Requirements: Setting reasonable notice periods for proposed overseas trips helps ensure transparency and cooperation.


If you are concerned that your child may be taken overseas without your consent, urgent legal remedies may be available, including court orders to prevent unauthorised travel. 


If there is a risk of a child being removed from Australia without consent, urgent remedies are available under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), including:


  • Airport Watch List (Family Law Watchlist Orders) through the Australian Federal Police.
  • Court orders preventing the issue or use of a passport.


Our team can act swiftly to protect your rights and ensure your child’s safety.


Cross-Border Cooperation and Enforcement


Enforcing Australian parenting orders overseas can present challenges. Recognition depends heavily on whether the other country is a signatory to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (1980) or the Hague Child Protection Convention (1996). We work closely with lawyers in your country of residence to:


  • Secure recognition and enforcement of Australian parenting orders in foreign jurisdictions
  • Advise on the application of the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, where relevant
  • Develop practical strategies to ensure compliance with court orders across borders
  • Our cross-border expertise ensures that your parenting arrangements remain effective and enforceable, wherever you and your children are located.


By combining Australian legal expertise with international cooperation, we help ensure that your parenting arrangements remain effective, enforceable, and focused on your child’s best interests wherever in the world you live.


Key Takeaways


Australian family law may continue to apply to parenting arrangements for expats, particularly where children have a connection to Australia.


Relocation and long-distance parenting require careful planning, clear agreements, and a focus on the best interests of the child. Specialist legal advice is essential to navigate jurisdictional issues, travel consent, and cross-border enforcement.


International enforcement depends on treaties; parenting orders are more easily enforced in Hague Convention countries, but non-signatory jurisdictions often require fresh proceedings.


Cross-border parenting disputes involve complex legal and practical issues; tailored legal guidance helps protect both your child’s wellbeing and your parental rights.


Contact Us


If you are an Australian expatriate facing separation or parenting disputes, our experienced team can provide tailored advice and representation whether in Hong Kong, Singapore, Dubai, London, New York, or elsewhere and are navigating separation or parenting disputes. Our experienced family law team can provide clear, tailored advice to protect your rights and your child’s wellbeing. We are committed to helping you create workable, enforceable parenting arrangements that protect your children and your relationship with them, wherever you are in the world.


Contact The Norton Law Group today for specialist expat family law advice.



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